Spiritual experiences, and the rule of fish

Start your study with experiences, with applying and experimenting with what you know. Don’t think that you can wait until after enlightenment before you have experiences. If you want to know your true self, experiences are the fastest way to go.  

The Abbess, Hye Won Sunim

When I first became a monk, the abbess at the main Hanmaum Seon Center in Anyang said to me, “Without the experiences (that come from trying to rely upon one’s inherent Buddha-nature), it’s really hard to live as a monk or nun for very long. You need the sustenance of these experiences.”   

Here is a bit more that she has said about spiritual experiences.  

The more effort you make, the more results and experiences you will get.  And the more effort you make, the harder your true nature will push you. The harder you study, the harder your true self, Juingong, pushes you.   

If you are determined to study very hard, and try to do so, you will have some obstacles from other people, monks and nuns, laypeople, and various people around you. If you stop studying because of obstacles from other people, you won’t make any further progress.  So don’t be bound or tied down by these.  

The first thing you have to pass through is learning to ignore the obstacles from other people.  To me, I’m focused on taking care of my practice, regardless of what other people are doing to me.  I have seen many people, including sunims and laypeople who drop out because of obstacles from laypeople and hardships from their teacher.  

Don’t try to have the same experience several times.  Once you have an experience, try to let it go so that you can have other experiences. 
The Rule of Fish  

There’s an odd thing I’ve discovered about spiritual experiences – they have a lot in common with fish: They’re alive and vibrant at first, but unless we release them, within a day or two, they really begin to stink.  

Unless we let go of them, nothing new comes, so it’s very hard to keep growing. In addition, if we don’t release them, they will become a foothold for “I” and the all the opinions and fixed views that go along with this sense of “me.” Without even being aware of it, a subtle thought begins to pervade our consciousness, “Look what I know.” From the moment this stink of I starts to pervade our outlook, things begin to fall apart.  I can’t claim to know all the details about why this is, but my feeling is that the dualistic thought, of what I know, begins to cut us off from the whole and our source of energy and wisdom.   

However, when we release what we’ve experienced and become one with it, even though we seem to lose sight of it, it’s still there, transforming us. And when we need it, it will return.  

Trusting our root, our true nature, means that we entrust it with not just the bad things, but also the good things. We release them all to this root, remembering that is what’s really taking care of our lives and everything we encounter.

2 thoughts on “Spiritual experiences, and the rule of fish”

  1. this is so totally true (also for some reason I’ve been waiting to see these words on this blog! )

  2. “The first thing you have to pass through is learning to ignore the obstacles from other people. To me, I’m focused on taking care of my practice, regardless of what other people are doing to me.”

    My father taught me this as a teenager, when after an abusive experience with my mother, he told me to face her and communicate as this would help me grow…

    I needed to hear these words again. As sometimes the obstacles seem so great and it is easier to give into just running away, but then where am I running to and what am I running from? It always confronts me again in another form, and it is my life. So, when I turn to greet whatever confronts me with an, “okay, this is happening” and embrace it, I no longer need to run… I just need to remember this!

    Thanks for these words Chong Go! ♡ (I just found all these neat little symbols on my computer, fun stuff) 🙂

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