In a short letter, the Korean Seon master Hanam (han-am) Sunim, said something that’s stuck with me ever since:
The pillar of all work on behalf of Buddhism is harmony.
That’s all. Nothing fancy. But it packs such a wallop. Everything about interconnectedness and nonduality is right there, together with tremendous power to guide.
Am I feeling harmonious as I approach this issue?
Am I viewing the others involved in a harmonious way?
Will my intentions and behavior result in a harmonious outcome?
Although obvious in hindsight, this is such a critical issue, for we are all inherently connected, as Daehaeng Kun Sunim says, sharing the same life, the same mind, the same body, and working together as one while freely giving and receiving whatever is needed.
There’s only helping, not “helping her.” There’s only loving, not “loving them.” There’s only hating, not “hating them.” There’s only defeat and humiliation, not “defeating them.”
May all beings know happiness and harmony, joy and wisdom, virtue and merit.
with palms together,